I've only been a server for so long at two locations
First place nobody asked how much one made. We did our thing and went home. Pandemic hit and so decided not to go back since I never made much
Second place I'm at now the staff are a lot closer. However I'm always asked if I made a good amount of money.
At first it wasn't a big deal to me but recently I've just started getting uncomfortable about it. Before I just gave a rounded down answer; Now I say idk or I don't remember.
I don't converse much so is this a normal thing to bring up when trying to start a convo with someone you don't have a good conversation topic with?
Have any of you been in this situation? How did you handle it?